Our First Date....

So it was all set. Our very first date. I remember running around like an idiot the day before trying to set everything up. I made sure my car was clean, had plenty of cash in my wallet and agonized on what resturant we should have lunch at. I talked with Miss Di and pleaded for help. She wasn't buying it...at least my first pleas:

Miss Diana: "Oh no loverboy, you are on your own for this one. I cannot interfer and give you all kinds of help. That wouldn't be fair to B....or yourself".
I told Her I understood but kept asking was there anything She could tell me. Even if it's something really simple. Di and I were walking around the track at the gym when this discussion took place. After awhile, She finally relented a bit:
Miss Diana: "I think your a good guy Matt and have my B's best intentions in mind. So I will help you....but in only one area! Clothes.
I look at Miss Di with a bit of confusion. How were clothes going to help me? Then it dawn on me
She was going to help me with what to wear. Stupid! LOL!

Miss Diana: "You need to wear something very nice tomorrow Matt. Don't expect that a pair of jeans and a polo will be acceptable to her. And whatever you do, don't wear shorts with B. Not on a first date even if it's really hot. You need to show her that your really committed to putting your best foot forward at all times with her. If not, kiss whatever chance you have with her goodbye. And it's just not your clothes. Make sure you are shaven, your shoes are very well shined and wearing your best watch".

I listen very carefully to Her instructions before asking if a shirt and a tie would be appropriate?
Miss Diana: "No, that more then likely would be overkill considering it's just a lunch date. Just make sure it is something really nice, but not pink. She hates pink on a guy, LOL! Then there is Beth and what She wears. That is an entirely different issue, LOL!"
That information to be very helpful. I was planning on wearing a nice polo and jeans, LOL! I thought it was nice enough to let Miss Beth know I was serious about Her but luckily, I found it wasn't and pick something else out. Miss Di went on to explain the three possible type of outfits Miss Beth could possibly have on..and what they mean:

(Jeans/Gym Shoes) Miss Diana: "If She comes out wearing a pair of jeans and either gym shoes or flat ones; game over Matt. That is B's way of saying that your are a nice guy but you have no chance in hell with anything other then being stuck in as friends. And when you are stuck in the friends category with her, there is no parole son. You're there for good. And do not think just because She looks really good in it doesn't mean you still have a chance. You don't."
Me: "I know. Beth would look good in a paperbag".
Miss Di: "Jeez Matt. Calm down those hormones for a moment will ya, LOL!"
Me: "Sorry Di, you were saying".
Miss Di: "It's okay. It is really sweet how crazy you are about her. But I have to say it again. Jeans and gym shoes equals no chance. It could be her way of signaling what your fear was earlier. That it's a sympathy date and this will be your one and only date with her.
Me: "Well at least I will know from the very start whether She is interested or not LOL!


From there, Miss Di went on:

(Sun dress) Miss Diana: "If Beth is wearing some sort of sundress, that means she could be interested in you but not a lot. Certainly not a lot up to this point. You will have a chance with her if B wears a sundress but it will take a lot of work by you in order to win her over. I am not saying it's impossible, just is difficult. At least it's better then her wearing jeans and only seeing you as a friend no matter what."
Me: "So ultimately, her wearing a sundress is a good thing?"
Miss Di: "It is and I would set my expectation that She wears a sundress. It would fit Her right now since most likely B does not want to jump into anything right now after the whole Alex fuck up".
Me: "Did She tell you that?"
Miss Diana: "I cannot say Matt you know that. But I will say that there is a chance she will wear a possible third option and if B does, that is a really good sign for you".  

Me: "What Di?"


(Nice dress/high heels) Miss Diana: "If Beth shows up in a pretty dress and high heels, then she is interested in you. I cant' tell you how much she is interested in you if she does but I can tell you she only wears a dress and high heels on a first date if she likes the guy."
Me: "How often has she ever wore a nice dress and high heels on a first date?"
Miss Diana: "Not that often Matt. Not often at all. I think you have to go all the way back to Bobby for her to wear that on a first date. I know with Alex she did not wear it".
Me: "Wow! And they dated for several months. So I should temper my expectation not to see high heels and a pretty dress."
Miss Diana: "Yes you should. And don't think just because she wears them doesn't mean your home free either sport. She could easily find reasons to not like you after that. It just means she is interested with you when the date begins. It also means she has very high expectations on how the date should go."
Me. "Really? How high??"
Miss Diana: "Very. Beth doesn't throw on a nice dress and a pair of high heels for a guy unless she expects it to go very well and lead somewhere."

She went on to explain that the lunch nature of our date was meaniless as well. She will wear a nice dress and heels if She likes you even if it's afternoon time.

That night, I had the most difficult time sleeping. I had done everything I could think of. I tried to get as much out of Miss Di as I could and with her suggestions, went out to a store and bought a new shirt to wear to go along with a nice pair of brown pants. I had my nice brown shoes cleaned, my car washed, I cleaned my best watch and even got my hair neck cleaned up. But there was so much that could go wrong and I kept thinking about Miss Beth would wear when She came out. I was hoping it be a pretty dress and heels but being scared shitless it was just going to be jeans and gym shoes which mean zero chance at love. I also kept second guessing the place I pick out for us to eat at. I knew it was one of her favorites and Miss Di had mention in passing once, "That it is her favorite place to go on like a Saturday afternoon and have their quacamole with chips." I remember Her once saying.  But it wasn't a fancy place at all. As a matter of fact, it was really just an upscale sports bar. What if she came out in this goregous dress and heels expecting us to have lunch at an upscale resturant only to take her to a sports bar resturant? Talk about blowing a chance! I wound up making a second reservation at a nice Italian resturant I knew just in case. I also hadn't spoken with Miss Beth either that night other then I did reply an email back. She wanted my phone number (She is always in control; ALWAYS) in case "something unexpected happened". I thought about asking for Hers just in case but I was so pysched about this date, I was going to make it no matter what. Plus, She had not offered my cell phone and I would find out later, I had not earned it quite yet LOL! Eventually, I fell asleep dreaming only of her and what possibly could go right tomorrow....or wrong".


I remember waking up that following morning with a ton of nervous energy even though I did not sleep that great the night before. I thought about going to the gym and workingout but I thought better of it knowing Miss Beth mostly was there either training or working and  I didn't want to see her before our date. I figured it be awkward. So I  went for a quick run before doing some basics like pushups and situps at home. I also had a light breakfast and read the morning paper while trying not to think about Miss Beth. It was very hard not too. I watched some TV for a bit before jumping in the shower and got ready. As I got ready, I watched the weather report and it stated that we should expect scatter thunderstorms and rain this afternoon. "Great", I'd thought.."I just got my frickening car cleaned". I sighed as I heard the weatherman stated it again. A bad omen perhaps? I certainly hope not! I finished getting ready and look over the directions plus myself once again before heading out to pick Miss Beth up. I also grab a large umbrella in case the weatherman was right for once.

The traffic was relatively light which I had expected and I got to Miss Beth's parents house in plenty of time. As a matter of fact, I was ten minutes early as I look at my car clock which read "11:50 AM". What to do? I thought to myself. At first, I made sure I had everything I needed. How embarrasing would it be if I forget something that I didn't check before like breath freshers or worse yet cash. I already check to see if I had my wallet and cell phone before I left the house but not those two items. I checked and had both therefore I didn't have to try and squeeze in a quick run to a gas station. I thought about ringing the bell just to let her know I was there and she should take her time. But then her instructions went off in my head: "Do not ring the bell or knock. Just be there at noon". So I decided to not ring the bell. I got out of my car and went around to lean against the passenger door. I figure it would be easy access for me to open it when She came. The next ten minutes were the longest of my life. It seemed like I lean against my car for an enternity.

Miss Beth walked out precisely at noon. And when She did, my heart began beating out of my chest. I could not believe how beautiful She looked. And as She walk down the steps of Her parents house, I realize something. This was literally the first time I was seeing Miss Beth in an outfit outside of Her gym wear. I never seen Her in anything else since I have only seen Her at the gym and the one time we went to lunch with Miss Di, She had worn Her gym clothes since She needed to head back for work. I felt like I was going to start drooling I was so turn on. It didn't even felt like it was real. It honestly felt like a dream and Miss Beth was walking on a beach somewhere going in slow motion. And that when something else dawn on me. I was so taken on how goregous She looked and how much I wanted Her, I didn't bother to check out what She was wearing which according to Miss Di "would let you know right upfront how much she was interested in you".




I look Her over intentially for a brief instinct to see what type of outfit She had on. Miss Beth was not wearing jeans so at least I wasn't in the friend zone in that way. I also noticed She wasn't wearing a sundress either so I wasn't in that category either. I got exicted as She went down the last step. Was She wearing a pretty dress and high heels? Was I guy She really fancied over? I thought....I don't know. Miss Beth was wearing a dress; that was clear. But it honestly reminded me of a white tennis outfit then a dress (It wasn't, I just struggle with Women's fashion LOL!). It was pretty and She looked goregous in it but I had no clue what it meant! Was my Wife expecting us to go play tennis before or maybe after lunch? I looked down and thought maybe Her shoes would give me a better clue. Again, no idea. They weren't gym shoes or flats so at least I wasn't again, being told no before this date even started. But at the same time, they weren't high heels either. They were someplace in the middle.
A million things were going off in my mind including the following: She was about to reach my car and I hadn't even said hello yet since I was drooling and trying to figure out what Her fucking dress meant! I tried to form the words, "Hello"in my mouth but She beat me to the punch.
Miss Beth: "Hey Matt. Nice to see you. Hope you weren't waiting long.
Me: "Not really. About 10 minutes".
Miss Beth: "Really that long? You should have rung the bell."
Me: "I was going to but you told me not too" (As I opened the car door).
Miss Beth: "Yeah I did, didn't I? You listen well I guess". (Closes the door).
Me: "You have no idea." I'd say underneath my breath as I walk over and got in.
Me: "If I may so, you look goregous today Beth". (starts the car)
Miss Beth: "Why thank you Matt. That is sweet. You look nice yourself. Where we going to eat? I'm starving".
Me: "It's a suprise"
Miss Beth: "Okay but it better be a good suprised, nobody likes a bad suprise!"
We both laugh as She said it. We talked throughout the car ride over to the resturant though Miss Beth asked if I could put some music on at one point, "for background noise". I thumb through some stations but eventually She said, "Don't you have any music that more fits a first date?" She asked. I smiled and push CD Number 2 on my car radio. A moment later, "I've Got A World On A String" began playing by Frank Siantra. She laughed. My heart sank for about the 100th time already with this Woman and we were barely 10 minutes into our first date. I had to say something to try and salvage the moment. I didn't want to blush in embarrasement again of Her thinking Frank Sinatra was for "Old Farts Or Something".

Me: "Sorry, I didn't know you did not like Frank Sinatra".
Miss Beth: "No, I love Sinatra! It's just isn't Frank normally saved for when a guy is trying to make a move on a girl sexually?"
Me: *BIG GULP "True but we did say this date was not us going out as friends. If I put on something else now, we be implying that perhaps we just want to be friends. And right now, I don't think either one of us is hoping this date leads to us being friends. At least up until this point".
Miss Beth: "I suppose not".  *Smiles*
Me: "Want me to leave it on?"
Miss Beth: "Please do".
Wow! I had finally went toe-to-toe verbally with Miss Beth and had not gotten the crap kick out of me and left embarrased. As a matter of fact, I think I score a couple points. Go me! But I quickly got off my rush of "power" and worried again. We were coming up to the resturant. What if She didn't want to go there? I had decided against my backup plan and dropped the reservation on the car ride over to pick Her up. I realized the damage would have been done regardless because She would have hated my big idea so it was pointless to have a backup plan. Be cool Matt, I thought to myself. Be cool. And as we drove, the heavens open up and a down pour begin. Terrific I thought to myself, the weathermen are finally right! Bad omen indeed!! At least I remember to pack that large umbrella.

We pulled up to the resturant and thankfully, Miss Beth did not leave me dangling:
Miss Beth: "Oh I was kinda hoping we were going here! I love this place! They got the best guacamole ever! How did you know to take me here?"
Me: "Like you said earlier, I listen well." *Smiles*
Miss Beth: "You listen very well apparently. Unexpected". *Smiles back*
I pulled the car to the front of the resturant and got out grabbing my umbrella from the back seat. It was raining cats and dogs and there was a bit of sidewalk before you got under the roof  of the resturant therefore I didn't want Her to get wet. I ran over to Her side, opened the umbrella and then Her door. I reach down for Her hand with my right hand as I held the umbrella with my left. As I open the car door. I notice something I had never seen before; Miss Beth looking suprised.
Miss Beth: "Wow... *She takes my hand and gets underneath the umbrella..again pure magic for me when I take Her hand*.....most unexpected Matthew."
Me: "I didn't want you to catch cold Beth". I'd smile at Her and honestly, I wanted to kiss Her right then and right there. But She beat the crap out of me for trying that move so I'd just walk Her to the door and ran back to my car in order to park it.
Me: "Go in Beth please, no reason to wait in the rain. The reservation is under my name".
Miss Beth: "I don't mind waiting Matt. I'll be here when you get back."

I slam the door to my car after I closed my umbrella, got all tingly and parked the car. I then went to the front where Miss Beth was still at waiting for me underneath the overhead. I escorted Her in, we got our table and had an absolute fabulous lunch. We had their guacamole and chips as an appitizier and it was just how Miss Beth had describe it; the best. We laughed a lot and it seemed like our conversasion was endless. No awkward pauses. I had been worried that we would have nothing to say to each other but the opposite was happening. We had too much to talk about. We also flirted quite a bit or well, at least I tried to flirt with Her. I also noticed She'd laughed whenever I made a joke or tried to be funny which I took as a good sign. We had lunch, a few beers too (God did She turn me on when order a beer) split a dessert and even had tea. Everything was perfect except I still didn't knew what Her outfit meant. I even called Miss Di quickly when Miss Beth went to the bathroom at one point. I told Her about it but She wasn't giving me any help: "I don't have a clue loverboy. You are on your own now remember, LOL!" While we were having tea, I looked at my watch. Holy smokes it was nearly 3:00 PM. That means we had been at the resturant for over 2 hours and a half hours now. I mentioned to Miss Beth how late it had gotten and She had the same reaction.
Me: "What is it you wish to do now?"
Miss Beth: "What do you mean?"
Me: "Well when you agreed to our date, you said after lunch you would see what you felt like doing".
Miss Beth "Is this your attempt to continue our date?"
Me: "No, that wasn't part of our agreement. I am just asking what you felt like doing".
Miss Beth: *Smiles* "You know. You should have been a lawyer and not a architect Matthew. You know that right?"
Me: "My mother has always told me that".
Miss Beth: "She is a smart lady".
Me: "Aren't all women?"
Miss Beth: "Careful now Matt. You don't want to kiss up that much to me. But you are right. And I should answer your question. Well, I don't feel like going home just yet. Do you?"
Me: "Not in the slightest".
Miss Beth: "Did you take care of the bill?"
Me: "Yes and no, you can't give any money for it".
Miss Beth: "We will see about that later. But right now, I am in the mood to catch a late maintee movie. What about you?"
Me: "I'd be game".
Miss Beth: "Good I saw a newspaper on the bar. Let's go checkout some movie times"
Miss Beth grabbed me by the hand and dragged me over to the bar. I nearly crapped my pants I was so turn on. She opened the newspaper and we thumbed through our picks. There was crap out. The big movies that weekend were "Talladega Nights" and "Snakes On A Plane". Terrific. Neither movie was something you wanted to be your first date. Will Ferrell doing NASCAR jokes and Samuel J Jackson stuck on a plane with snakes. Neither one worked in my mind. I thumbed through it some more and noticed that "The Devil Wears Prada" was playing in a bit and we could make it. I figure that was better then the other choices. I also notice just before I spoke, She jumped ever so slightly.
Me: "The Devil Wears Prada" is starting in about twenty minutes. We can go see perhaps I'd said.
Miss Beth: "You really want to see "The Devil Wears Prada?"
Me: "Why did you see it?"
Miss Beth: "I'd asked you first".
Me: "Kinda. It does have Anne Hathaway in it. And she is a talented actress and pretty."
Miss Beth: "She is goregous I have to admit that. So you wish to watch Miss Anne Hathaway for the rest of the afternoon?."
Me: "No. I rather watch you all afternoon but I'll settle for Anne Hathaway if you want to see it".
Miss Beth: *Laughs*. "Oh dear me Matt. Where on earth did you come from?"
Me: "I am one of a kind".
Miss Beth: "LOL! Fair enough."
Me: "Then it's settle then. "The Devil Wears Prada in 20 minutes".
Miss Beth: "Nope, let's go see "Snakes On A Plane. It will be fun."
And off we went.



We went to the movie and had a blast. She bought our tickets but I insisted I buy our two bottles of water and a small popcorn that we split. I guess we were both full from lunch because we didn't even finish the small bag. The movie was dumber then shit but we laughed throughout the entire thing, cracking jokes. The theater was mostly empty so we didn't bother anyone and She put up Her feet on the chair in front of us and had me do the same. Sometime in the middle, I reached for Her hand but stumbled as I did so. It didn't matter though because She was already reaching for mine and wasn't fumbling. Our hands connected and we both gave each other a look and a smile. We were like a couple of teenagers and I was in heaven. It was going better then I ever expected. We held hands on the way to the car after the movie and of course, I opened the door for Her like I did all day long.

I drove Her home and we started the ride by laughint and talking. It had been a fun day; a great date really. The best date of my life I thought to myself as we got close to Her house. But something strange happened as we got close to Her house, She began shutting down. Miss Beth really stop talking other then answering a question I had or something. For the first time all day we were having awkward silences. Maybe I had been too bold in holding Her hand. Or maybe it was while it was a fun date, that's all it was. We pulled our to Her driveway and I was very nervous. I'd thought something was wrong but I tried to press on:
Me: "May I walk you to the front door, make sure you get in all right".
Miss Beth: *Looking straight ahead* "No".
Me: "I had a wonderful time with you Beth. I hope we can -------"
And that is when it happened. Before I could even blink, Miss Beth had grabbed me by the collar, pull me towards Her and began kissing my lips. I was honestly in a state of pure shock for a moment and thought I wasn't kissing back at all so I made sure to quickly get into it. Her lips? Pure heaven. Her tongue? Pure heaven. Everything about Her was pure heaven including our She kissed which was perfect. I also notice She was in completely control of our kiss but I could care less. My head was tilted in a way Miss Beth could massage my face and grab my neck which She was doing and the only one of us to make a "mmmmmmmmmm" sound was me. We kissed like that for quite a bit. It was honestly the best kiss of my life and did not want to end but like everything else, it had to end. My head was spinning when we finished. We just look at each other for a few moments after we finished. Miss Beth was giggling very quietly so I'd knew She at least sort of like it. I then spoke something stupid but I guess sweet:
Me: "Anne Hathway has gotten nothing on you Beth *catching my breath*. Nothing".
Miss Beth: *Smiles* "I am glad you feel that way."
Me: *Trying to act cool* "I had a great time B, I hope we can see each other soon".
Miss Beth: "I had a wonderful time too Matt. Give me your cell phone please".
I grabbed my cell phone and quickly handled it to Her. She programmed Her number into my phone and handled it back to me".
Miss Beth: "Call me at 9 PM sharp tomorrow night. Got it?"
Me: "Got it! Goodnight! Sure I cannot walk to your door or at least open the car door".
This is where it got strange..at least for a moment. Miss Beth was about to get out of the car and has I am saying my goodbye, She is reapplying Her lipstick. Weird I'd thought. Why should be putting more lipstick now that She was home? Maybe Miss Beth's parents where home and didn't want them to see She just sat in their driveway for the past few moments and was smooching with him. I would find out that thought was completely wrong.

Miss Beth: "No I got Matt it. Thank you again for a wonderful time...*about to open the car door but stops*. "Oh Matt. One last thing."
Me: "What is it?"
Miss Beth: "Do you carry a handkerchief?"
Me: "Yeah I do. Why?"
Miss Beth:*Smiling* "I thought so. Can I see it?"
Me: "Sure I'd guess." *I reached into my back pocket and grab my handkerchief. I then handled it to Her.
Miss Beth: *She looks down at it for a good moment smiling. She then puckers Her lips and gives it a good long kiss leaving Her lip marks on it since she puckered them. She then hands it back to me giggling again ever so slightly. She then looks deep into my eyes. "Miss me Matt, okay?"
Me: "Honestly, I already miss you. Will you miss me?"
Miss Beth: "I will think about it" *smiles and winks opens the door and leaves walking slowly back to Her house. She looked back as She gets to Her door and smiled. I watch in awe and smile back. When She got in, I drove off..for about a block. Then I stopped the car and exhaled so deeply and just shook. My God, I cannot believe that just all happened. I look down at the handkerchief and notice my cock was rock hard. Wow. I don't even think two cold showers is going to take care of that! I did call Her right at 9 PM the following night and we stay up to nearly 3 AM the last morning talking. Among our topics that night...our second date.

Coming up next: Our second date.

Appendix: Miss Beth would like to use a moment and use the "50 Shades Of Grey" style of writting so the Dom could give a few thoughts after I wrote what happened:
1. Her first impression of me after She'd walkout: "I thought he looked so damn hot. Part of me wanted to throw him on the car and just start kissing him right then and there. He was so put together and yet he did not go overboard with his outfit by wearing some ridicilously priced shirt. I also noticed he was a bit tongue tied when I walk down the stairs so I spoke first. It was really cute. I also liked how he was waiting to open the car door for me. Made me feel like a special young lady from the very first moment."
2. Frank in the car: "I like how he sparred with me. He didn't back down to whatever I said. He challenged me at the right time but had been respectful about it. I liked it. It showed he had a backbone even if I wanted him to be a submissive man. Plus I got to bring up sex first with him and make him squirm for a few moments. I loved it when he squirms!"  
3. Getting the umbrella for Her and walking Her to the door of the resturant: "Like I said at that very moment...very unexpected. Matt seemed to be a gentleman so I'd knew he do something for me and not have me walk in the pouring rain. I expected him to just drop me off in front but if we parked and he just carried an umbrella in the rain, that be okay too but a bit disappointing. The fact he not only dropped me off but got out and walk me to the door with an umbrella was extremely unexpected and honestly made me a bit hot. When I stood up and was walking with him, I was unopposed to him kissing me at that point. I wanted to kiss him first and felt like the moment wasn't right for that yet but if he went ahead and kiss me then, I wasn't going to get that upset".
4. Jumping at the bar while we look at the newspaper: "I was trying to be all cutsy with him and rub the heel of my foot on his leg. I know I was putting him through a lot of tests and could be really rough on him so I wanted to have a moment where I wanted to let him know that I really did like him and yes, was a bit smitten with him as well. The dumbass though moved his leg just as I was about to touch his so it startled me ever so slightly. The dumbass also failed to notice I wasn't really looking at the movie times. I knew I wanted to go see "Snakes On A Plane" even though it was a horrible movie. But that was the whole point. If you could have a good time with someone while watching a terrible movie, you have someone. So I didn't look at the paper really. I'd just look at him and smiled".
5. Not wanting me to pay for everything: "I didn't want to think I was some sort of free loader and just interested in him because he was pretty successful and I was just out of college. Besides, if we wind up together; I be controlling his money at anyrate so what is the difference, LOL!"
6. What the white dress meant: "As Matt said, he doesn't have a good understanding but I can see how it could remind him of a white tennis dress. It had kinda a similiar cut. Why did I wear it? I wore it because I bought the dress the day we meet a few months ago and thought it would be really cute if I were to ever went out with him for some reason. Turns out it was a smart purchase. And yes, the dress and mid heels meant I was interested in him. Very very interested in him. :)
7. The handkerchief kiss: "Just pulling him stronger into my web. I knew he was really into me but just in case he forget for a moment or didn't realize I was really into him, he remember".
8. Why She didn't let me walk Her to the door: "I already planned on how I was going to say goodnight and we didn't have to leave his car. Plus, I still had plenty of tests for him and wanted him to continue chasing. Besides, my parents were not home and weren't going to be home so if we walked to the door, I be tempted to ask him in. And if I asked him, then I don't know if I could control myself with him especially since I didn't have any ducktape handy. *Smiles*